God created man not in isolation. He created us to have freindships and relations with one another. Sometimes we tend to lock everyone out because we are afraid of being hurt.We are afraid that if we let anyone in that we break down the wall of protection that we have so carefully constructed. However we must understand that we do need one another, for help, for comfort, to have laughs, to cry with. We must understand that once we let in the good the bad will always come in tagging along but it is how we chose to deal with it. Yes many times people hurt us in a way that the pain is in explainable, they breakdown our trust, our respect, our love and faith in them, they take away the perfect image we had of them. We feel that the wall of protection should be restored. But the sooner we realize that forgiveness should be our response the better for us. If you are like me, who could forgive but cant forget the journey will be harder, but because one person disappoints you, it is not an excuse to block others out. In essence what i am saying is that do not remain isolated but let persons in, deal with the bad as it comes and let forgiveness reign over your heart. I wish happiness to all who reads this and finds solace. ;)